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I am M. and I'm on my 3rdLife! Having been married, raised children to be healthy and whole. IT'S MY TIME NOW!  3rdLife isn't just a website,  it' Hope, its an expression of my self worth, my desires and my creativity. I hope you enjoy looking around as much I do daily replenishing and keeping up with the new for 2022. Essence and Vouge are my best

Thanks for your support it is truly appreciated.


My Story

3rdLife Living & Lifestyle is not just some throwaway term to denote a certain type of Instagram photo. Lifestyle is determined by our memories, our memories help us create meaning. That helps us to create our life and our own image.

  • My 1st Life is measured from my childhood until my young adult life. Which I tell you a girl from Philly by way of Miami had FUN! Miami in the '80s can you imagine, with a celebrity love life...No Shame Here

  • My 2ndLife was all about Church & Children, the Pastor, and the Wife.

  • My 3rdLife is my own, I've learned over the years at some point you have to be selfish or become Life-less. This life is authentically me & 3rdLife Living is all about the journey, through the storytelling of wisdom, showing, and proving. It's about our success & failures, as we walk proudly into our truth about Life, Love, Relationships, Personal Development, Validation,  Positive Affirmations, AND CLOTHS. I say "We" because I hope you join me on a new journey of 3rdLife. is about Living and Lifestyle through Online Clothing shops (Retail Therapy), Fashion, mental health, Spirituality, and deep conversation. Presents M's 3rdLife fashion Vlog & a variety of Podcast  and don't forget to check out our Luxury Gift Shop. If you like more engagement visit my Vlog below.




I'm always looking for new and exciting opportunities. Let's connect.


Privacy Policy:


Your privacy is important to 3rdLife and we take every procedure possible to assure your safe purchase.

​This Privacy Policy describes Our policies and procedures on the collection, use and disclosure of Your information when You use the Service and tells You about Your privacy rights and how the law protects You.


  1. A customer visits or and places an order

  2. The customer pays the seller directly via PayPal, Square (depending on the seller's settings)

  3. 3rdLife tells the seller about the sale

  4. The seller confirms the payment with PayPal, or Square

  5. The seller ships directly to the buyer via USPS, UPS, FedEx, or another qualified carrier

Who do I pay when I make a purchase on 3rdLife?

You pay the seller directly via one of our payment processors - PayPal, Square or Wix.

The seller is an individual/business that is not associated with 3rdLife

You can see which payment processor you used by viewing your recent purchases.

And what about shipping?

The seller ships directly to you via USPS, UPS, FedEx, or another qualified carrier. 3rdLife does not keep any inventory, nor do we facilitate the shipping of items.

3rdLife is not involved in the actual transaction of money and goods between buyers and sellers, and does not transfer legal ownership of items from the sellers to buyers. As a result, 3rdLife has no control over the items advertised, or the ability of sellers to sell items, or the ability of buyers to pay for items.

Often times, you can view the shipping method directly in the listing of the item you purchased. Otherwise, we will contact the seller via email for this information if they have not already added tracking information to the order.


What do I do if I have a problem with my transaction?

1. Contact 3rdLife

If your item hasn't arrived or isn't as described, first try to contact 3rdLife. Just go to your "Account > Recent purchases" page and locate the transaction. Use the "Send them a message" link under the seller's username to contact the seller directly. Or you can contact the seller from this location will automatically reference your order number.

Most sellers are happy to resolve any issues you may have, so give them a chance to make it right for you.

Please note that payment disputes are time sensitive. For current deadlines please contact the payment processor, PayPal, Amazon Pay or your bank, directly. Failure to do so could result in your claim being rejected.

2. Report the seller to 3rdLife Immediately 

The "Report a problem" link to open a dispute will appear at the bottom of the order summary 14 days after your order date, or the day after the estimated delivery date, whichever is sooner.  Cases for items that arrive significantly not as described can be opened as soon as you receive the shipment.

Should an issue arise during the course of a transaction, 3rdLife encourages the buyer and seller to work out a resolution that is satisfactory to both parties. 3rdLife is invested in making sure that we remove any sellers from our marketplace who are not performing up to your and our expectations. Thank you in advance for bringing such sellers to our attention so we can make 3rdLife better for all.

3. File a dispute with the payment processor

If the transaction is done online in most cases 3rdLife can process the refund expeditiously. In other instances, in order to get your money back, you will have to file a dispute with whichever processor was used to pay for your purchase. This is very rare.

How can I get my money back?

3rdLife can return your money almost immediately, if the shipment has not been delivered. For specific rules and guidelines for PayPal, Square and Wix Pay's buyer protection programs, along with instructions on how to file a claim, visit the appropriate website.  For checkout with Square, contact your debit or credit card provider directly to file a dispute on the purchase.

 Michele Devine, Proprietor